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People tend to over look and over think happiness. Happiness is defined by good fortune; pleasure; contentment; joy. Even though many people think of happiness as good fortune, does not mean you have to have good fortune in order to be happy. Many times people with good fortune are only happy for a short period of time, good fortune comes but once its gone, happiness goes with it. Think of it as weather, the sun comes out and you're all happy, but it cant stay out forever. Before you know it clouds come, and then the rain falls. It's a never ending cycle of life. Sometimes we rise and sometimes we fall, but chances are it's never going to stay at one phase, life is ever changing. The point is, is that happiness is so easy, our minds are just tricked to think that when our good fortune is gone or when our highest point of pleasure is gone, that we are no longer happy. This is not true. Happiness is all about controlling your mind and changing your mind set. Accept things for what they are; in order to be happy you have to accept that not everything is going to be your way and that everyone comes from different perspectives/personalities. Look at life as a whole not piece by piece. Just because a few things in your life suck, does not mean your whole life sucks and that you should be miserable because of these small pieces of your life. Don't worry about what you've done wrong in the past, worry about how your actions now and think about your future. In order to be happy you have to focus on one thing and that one thing is yourself. You have to take every other person out of your mind and out of your life for that one moment and think to yourself what makes me happy? What do I want in my life and what do I need in my life? Remove your friends from your mind, your family, your boyfriend/husband/crush, your enemies, your role models. What do you want to do with your life? Stop worrying about what others will think about you and just be yourself, be creative, have fun, be different, try new things, explore. BE the inspiration to all. The people who are jealous of you or who talk badly of you are the ones who wished they could have done what you did first. "The best revenge is a life well lived" Live your life how you want, full of happiness, and it will be the greatest revenge to all of the haters. If you live this way, you will feel a million times better and over time you will stop worrying about what everyone thinks of you.
Ways to be happy:
- Learn new talents
- Gain a new hobby
- Learn new subjects
- Maintain better health
- Surround yourself with positive people
- Try yoga/ exercising
- Gain better habits in general
- Treat yourself better
- Do good deed for others
- Take care of your appearance
- Smile/laugh
- Listen to music
- Spend time with friends/family
- Go to the spa
- Go shopping
- Learn to love your enemies
- Stop hate
- Travel
- Meet new people
- Do good in school
